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Dying to know

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Steven White

09 August 2023, 3:04 AM

Dying to know

Death is a topic that everyone will encounter at some point in their lives, but many Australians choose to avoid discussing it. 

 

The Groundswell Project Australia, a not-for-profit organisation that works to improve end-of-life experiences, seeks to change this by promoting open conversations about death. 



Together with the local Compassionate Communities Group, they are hosting a Death Café at the Kiama Library on Friday.

 

Kate Roberts, a resident of Kiama, has been attending Death Cafés since 2020 and finds them incredibly helpful. She believes that these events aid in preparing people for the unimaginable by addressing both practical and emotional aspects of death.


(Supplied) Kate Roberts believes more people should be open to discussing death.

 

"We discuss important issues like making wills, appointing a power of attorney, and coping with the emotional aftermath of death and dying."

 

Discussing death can be difficult for those facing it, but there is support available. The facilitators at Death Cafés can guide how to approach loved ones with these challenging conversations. 

 

"The facilitators are available to discuss various avenues that partners and family members can take when they find it tricky to open up about death. 



 "These cafés provide comfort because we are encouraged to talk about whatever we would like to."

 

Kate encourages people to explore the conversation surrounding death by attending a Death Café. She believes that discussing this topic openly and honestly helps individuals feel less alone and more supported. 

 

"When people speak and they touch on what you have been through, that's so comforting. We are often alone when dealing with death and dying. 


Death Cafés can be a great way to plan for the inevitable in a safe environment. 

 

"We try to be the caregiver or be strong for the people who are unwell. But people with different experiences come together for a purpose, such as making a will or preparing a funeral service, even having your dying loved ones at home.

 

"I had some wonderful people along the way to help me, and that's why I really responded to the Death Café because it's open and there's nothing we really don't talk about."

 

The Kiama Library is hosting a Death Café on Friday, August 11th, at 3 PM.