In Gerringong, the Naval Association of Australia has been fostering camaraderie for 21 years through its vibrant and close-knit community. Comprising ex-service personnel and their partners, the association is more than just a monthly gathering; it's a lifeline of friendship and support.

The association prides itself on creating a positive and engaging environment, where members, ranging from aviators ("birdies") to divers ("bubblies"), come together to share their unique experiences. This diverse blend also includes “stokers or clankies” (engineers), “subbies” (submariners), “dibbies” (seamen), “fish heads” (ship drivers), “greenies” (electricians), and “box packers” (logisticians). Clearly, it’s a group that enjoys humour and banter. Unlike the traditional military hierarchy, there's no distinction in rank here – everyone is known by their first name, fostering a sense of equality and easy going friendship.

Max Hair wielding a naval officer's sword prior to cutting the cake 

Meeting monthly, the group engages in storytelling, affectionately referred to as "warries" (stories). These tales, often laced with humour and banter, provide a therapeutic outlet for members who understand the nuances of a life in the Navy. It's not just about reminiscing; the association recognises the importance of social connection for mental well-being, especially during the challenging transition into retirement.

The monthly gatherings also feature a formal segment where business matters are discussed, and occasionally, remembrance is observed. Historical talks and commemorative events add depth to the meetings. Following the formalities, members enjoy coffee and cake and informal chats. Once a month attendance is optional at a local lunch venue, further strengthening the bonds forged within the group.

Despite the evident benefits and the sense of family, the association faces a challenge – dwindling numbers. Encouraging retired personnel to join is a priority, ensuring the inclusive and diverse mix of members continues to thrive. The group is not limited to Australian Navy veterans; it welcomes those from the British or Canadian navies and the merchant marine.

At the helm of this maritime community is Commodore Lee Cordner, a veteran with 33 years of active service and 16 years in the reserves. Dr. Cordner, also an accomplished author on maritime security, serves as the President. The group's Patron is Vice Admiral Tim Barrett, a former Chief of the Navy, adding a touch of prestige to the association.

The Secretary, Robert Foster, a former Warrant Officer, exemplifies the association's commitment to continued service. In retirement, Foster works as a Veteran's Advocate, assisting fellow vets in navigating the bureaucracy of Veterans Affairs. This dedication reflects the association's ethos of looking out for one another beyond the monthly meetings.

The Gerringong Naval Association's legacy traces back to the late Bill Popple, a WW2 veteran and founding secretary. Although Popple has passed away, his spirit lives on.  The oldest member, Max Hair, known as "Bunny," is 95. Bunny served as a ‘dibbie’ (Petty Officer) in the Korean War, and in his speech at the group’s 21st anniversary event he described the association as more than a group – a family.

In a world where connections are valued more than ever, the Gerringong Naval Association stands as a testament to the enduring bonds forged by those who have sailed the seas together.