For four decades, Kiama has been home to a funeral service that’s been more than just a business, but a cornerstone of the community. Steeped in family tradition and a strong sense of community, H. Parsons has operated on Manning Street in Kiama since 1981 under the name Stan Crapp Funerals.

The Parsons family originally chose to keep the Crapp name as a sign of respect for the highly regarded and reputable family. Stan Crapp was well known around town not just as a businessman but also a sociable character who helped found the annual Kiama Rugby Sevens tournament. The Crapp family was heavily involved in the community, and the Parsons felt it important to honour that lasting legacy.  

As Kiama evolved, so too did community dynamics. Now in 2024, the time has come for a name change. Alan Parsons, the fourth generation to own the company explains the shift comes at a time that is right for the community and for the business. 

Alan says, “The vast majority of local people don’t have associations with the Crapp name. There are no Crapps left in Kiama.” H. Parsons continues to provide community support in many ways, one of which is by continuing to sponsor the Sevens competition each year. 

The transition to the H. Parsons’ name symbolises a commitment to serving the community for generations to come. “Kiama has changed, our community has changed and it’s important for us to reflect those changes,” says Alan. The name change does not detract from the fundamental values the business holds close to ensure they are offering compassionate and dignified services during life’s most difficult moments. The staff remains the same as does the company ethos.

Alan has been operating the family business from the age of 24, he understands the emotional toll the industry takes but feels comforted by the profound impact his work has on other people’s lives. “You couldn’t ask for a more rewarding job, to be able to help people during their most difficult times is a privilege.” 

With six chapels operating across the South Coast and Illawarra, the H. Parsons' name has grown and spread throughout since they were established in 1893. They are the oldest family owned business that exists in the Illawarra. The strength of the business is drawn from the strength of the family who have entirely surpassed expectations.

Around 30 per cent of businesses survive the transition from one generation to the next, and only roughly 12 per cent survive a second transition. H Parson’s has persisted through four since Alan’s great grandfather, Henry Parsons established the company in 1893. From Henry to Alfred to John to Alan, H. Parsons has witnessed the incredible achievement. 

As the torch passes to the next generation, Alan’s son Anthony is ready to continue the family legacy and take the family business into its fifth generation of Parsons ownership when the time comes. The H. Parsons Funeral Home remains committed to serving this community with compassion and integrity for many years to come.