Deirdre Frances O'Connor, former Federal Court judge who passed away last month, carved an unconventional yet esteemed path in the legal profession. Graduating with first-class honours from Sydney University Law School in 1974, Deirdre stood out in a high-achieving cohort, including prominent figures like Professor Margo Somerville and the Honourable Joseph Campbell. Deirdre and Joseph resided in Kiama for her final 5 years.

Her journey was remarkable, starting law school with an Arts degree and three young boys in tow, showcasing her pioneering spirit. Despite the challenges, she maintained a down-to-earth, well-organised demeanour and a rueful sense of humour, earning respect from her peers.

In the early 1970s, when the legal profession was still reluctant to embrace women, Deirdre became a trailblazer. Only about 20 women were part of her 300-student law school cohort, challenging stereotypes and paving the way for female success in the field.

At Law School, Deirdre unexpectedly found love in Michael Joseph, a man eight years her junior. They defied societal expectations, marrying and building a devoted partnership that lasted a lifetime.

Choosing a unique career path, Deirdre became a renowned academic at UNSW, Macquarie University, and the Australian Film School. Later, she held key positions at the Law Reform Commission, the Australian Broadcasting Tribunal, and eventually became the first woman appointed to the Federal Court of Australia.

Her five-year tenure as president of the Industrial Relations Commission stands as her significant legacy. Deirdre's decisions in cases like the Family Law test case and the Supported Wage System case had a lasting impact on Australian workers, establishing rights to family leave and assisting people with disabilities in employment.

Colleagues remember Deirdre as highly intelligent, down-to-earth, and deeply concerned for others. She challenged gender stereotypes, earning praise from the likes of Professor Margo Somerville and the Honourable Mary Gaudron, the first female judge on the High Court. Joseph and Deidre loved walking their dog along Jones beach and Joseph lovingly remembers when she was offered a Council of Order of Australia, but refused saying “you shouldn't get awarded for doing your job”. 

Deirdre's journey, marked by personal and professional challenges, reflects her resilience and determination. As we remember her groundbreaking contributions, her legacy lives on through her surviving sons, her grandchildren, and the indelible mark she left on Australia's legal landscape.