As part of the 16 Days of Activism against Gender-Based Violence, running from November 25 to December 10, 2024, communities around the world are raising awareness and taking action to end violence against women and girls. In Kiama, we’re proud to say our community is joining others around the world with several local initiatives that reflect our commitment to this global campaign.

On November 25th, the Zonta Club of Kiama/Shellharbour held a ceremony of remembrance at Coronation Park, Kiama. This solemn event honoured the lives lost to domestic violence in NSW this year. A poignant shoe display, with each pair representing a life taken, underscored the devastating toll of these crimes.

The evening included shared stories, reflections, and a peaceful sound healing session, bringing the community together to remember those lost, support survivors, thank first responders, and stand united against domestic abuse.

Looking ahead, on Saturday, November 30th, the Rotary Clubs of the Illawarra will host a Say NO to Domestic Violence – Community Awareness Walk. The 2.1km walk starts at Kiama Lighthouse and is a free, family- and pram-friendly event. After the walk, participants can attend a presentation featuring resources on domestic violence support.

While these events are impactful, they are just the beginning. Tackling an issue as critical as domestic and gender-based violence requires a united and sustained commitment from all of us.

Other countries have demonstrated that change is possible with the right strategies:

• Spain has reduced intimate partner homicides through dedicated gender violence courts, immediate protective measures, and public awareness campaigns promoting equality.
• New Zealand uses collaborative safety responses and home protection programs to keep victims safe while holding offenders accountable.
• Canada empowers communities with public education programs, accessible shelters, and disclosure policies for identifying risk.
• Scotland focuses on progressive legislation, criminalising coercive control and strengthening victim-centred policing.
• Iceland highlights how systemic gender equity policies can prevent violence at its roots.

These success stories remind us that sustained action and collaboration are key.

Turning 16 Days into 365 Days of Action

To make our efforts sustainable, Kiama could implement a gender equity strategy with measurable goals and transparent reporting. Partnering with schools, clubs, and workplaces to deliver workshops on healthy relationships will help build long-term change.

Council, local businesses, and community organisations can work together to provide resources, improve workplace policies, and advocate for increased funding for prevention programs. These actions will ensure we continue building momentum beyond these 16 days of activism. There are already a number of organisations venturing into this arena – notably Mark Burns from the Man Walk and his mentoring programme for young men too.

Let’s acknowledge the efforts of our community this week and commit to turning 16 days into 365 days of action. Together, we can create a future where every day is a stand against domestic violence.

Support is available

• Call 1800RESPECT (1800 737 732) for 24/7 confidential counselling and support.
• Visit www.1800respect.org.au for more resources.
• In an emergency, call 000.
• Ask Izzie 
• Men can contact the Men’s Referral Service on 1300 766 491 or visit
•  No To Violence.