When you’ve seen as many Christmases as I have, the sparkle of tinsel and the aroma of ham can sometimes lose their charm. It’s not that the day itself is unwelcome, it’s the politics of it all. The grumpy aunt who can’t let go of a 20-year grudge. The uncle who has opinions on everything from climate change to how you carve the turkey. The mother-in-law whose every compliment feels like a backhanded slap.And let’s not forget the exhaustion of trying to make Christmas “perfect.” The tree has to look like it fell out of a magazine. The presents must scream thoughtfulness. The food must rival a five-star restaurant, even if half the family doesn’t eat gluten, dairy, or meat.For many, Christmas feels more like an endurance event than a celebration. And yet, there’s something about this time of year that still matters. It’s not the religion for everyone. It’s not even the traditions we cling to like lifeboats. It’s the fact that it’s a day put aside. A day where, if we let it, we can pause and come together.But maybe it’s time we reinvented it. Australia, the most multicultural country in the world, is perfectly placed to create a Christmas that feels inclusive and meaningful for everyone, no matter what, or if, they believe.Imagine this: instead of a single dinner that divides us into our familiar corners of annoyance, we gather with neighbours and friends for a potluck feast. Everyone brings a dish that represents their culture or family heritage. From Indian curries to Lebanese baklava, Italian antipasti to Chinese dumplings, the table becomes a celebration of who we are as a nation.Instead of debates about who said what at last year’s party, we share stories. Not just stories of our own lives, but the histories of our families and how we came to be here. Instead of forced gift exchanges, we give something simple, a favourite recipe, a book we’ve loved, or even just our time to listen.And for those of us who’d prefer to avoid the noise altogether? What if Christmas became a day to reflect on what connection means to us? To send a letter of thanks to someone we appreciate, take a long walk with someone we love, or sit quietly with a coffee and remember those we’ve lost.A Christmas like this isn’t about religion or tradition; it’s about humanity. It’s about making space for each other in a world that so often leaves us divided. It’s a reminder that what matters most is the connections we make, grumpy aunt and all.So, this year, let’s try something different. Let’s make Christmas a day that reflects who we truly are: a diverse, compassionate, imperfect bunch of people who might not always get along, but who always, somehow, come back to the table.

LETTER TO KIAMA BUGLE Re. Letter from Karen Renkema-Lang Sharing her Reflections on a Long Legal Process Involving Kiama Council  (Bugle 17 December )Thank you for printing this letter in its entirety. Ms Renkema-Lang’s departure from Council is a great loss to our Community.  Her determination throughout her tenure, to uphold principles of honesty and integrity, will be missed.Ms Renkema-Lang was vindicated by the Supreme Court, but still incurred great losses, both personally and financially.In contrast, those within Council who were instrumental in the decision to Censure, and then defend Council in court, did not incur ANY financial or personal cost.Then, the deplorable referral of Ms Renkema-Lang to ICAC was rightly dismissed as having no substance.  This was a vengeful and intimidatory act designed to silence not only Ms Renkema-Lang but two other Councillors who tried to stand up for open and transparent debate.All this at huge expense to ratepayers, yet NO-ONE in Council has been called to account.Linda BrazierGerroa

Australia’s beaches are iconic, drawing people from all walks of life. But this love for the ocean comes with risks, especially for migrants who may be unfamiliar with water safety. At Kiama, the surf lifesaving club is not only keeping people safe—it’s breaking down cultural barriers and building bridges.“We see a lot of families from South Asia and Southeast Asia,” says Patrol Captain Ben George. “For many, it’s their first time at the beach, and they don’t always understand the dangers. We step in, explain where to swim, and sometimes even talk to the kids if the parents’ English isn’t strong.”Understanding rip currents is a crucial part of staying safe, but recognising them can be challenging. Interactive resources like the How to Spot a Rip website have become vital tools in helping beachgoers identify dangers before stepping into the water. The website offers visual guides and practical tips, empowering everyone—whether locals or first-time beach visitors—to navigate the ocean more safely.The challenges go beyond language. “Cultural norms play a role too,” explains Councillor Matt Brown. “We’ve had to rescue women wearing full clothing because they don’t want to swim in crowded areas, even if it’s dangerous. It’s a delicate balance of respect and safety.”These experiences reflect broader trends. Research from the Royal Life Saving Society Australia highlights that migrants are at a higher risk of drowning due to limited swimming skills and unfamiliarity with water safety practices. The organisation notes that “multicultural communities in Australia are at greater risk of drowning due to cultural differences in swimming ability and water safety knowledge.”.To address these challenges, the Kiama surf club is actively engaging with multicultural communities. One standout success is the growing participation of Muslim families. “It started with one family and snowballed,” says Ben. “Now we have kids in nippers and parents earning their bronze medallions.”This approach mirrors initiatives elsewhere. Surf Life Saving Queensland’s “On the Same Wave” program has educated over 60,000 people from diverse backgrounds about beach safety, while in Victoria, a push to provide fully funded swimming lessons is helping vulnerable communities reduce the risk of drowning.At Kiama, building connections is key. “We’re a nation surrounded by water,” says Matt. “The more people we can get swimming safely, the better. It’s not just about saving lives—it’s about making sure everyone feels they belong.”For Ben and the team, lifesaving goes beyond the waves. It’s about prevention, education, and inclusion. “This club is a reflection of our town,” Ben adds. “People from all backgrounds coming together, learning, and looking out for each other. That’s what lifesaving is really about.”On Kiama’s beaches, the flags don’t just represent safety—they represent a community united by the water.

Jamberoo’s Reid Park, a cherished community hub and heritage landmark, is gearing up for repairs after a fire destroyed play equipment earlier this year. Kiama Council will begin removing the damaged equipment in early January, ensuring the remaining facilities can still be used. The replacement equipment, funded by the Council’s insurance, is expected to be installed by late March at a cost of $89,000.Reid Park holds a special place in Jamberoo’s history. Donated in 1937 by Ms Annie Eva Reid to mark King George VI’s coronation, the park is renowned for its heritage-listed early 20th-century tree plantings and its connection to St Stephen’s Church, which enhances the landscape of Jamberoo’s western township.Reid Park is a place of historical and social importance, the fire damage has left many residents disheartened.The park’s thoughtful design also provides wonderful opportunities for people with disabilities, including wheelchair-friendly access. This inclusive feature has made it a favourite spot for all members of the community to gather, celebrate, and enjoy.Councillor Erica Warren, a Jamberoo resident, spoke about the park’s significance. “Reid Park is more than a playground – it’s a space for birthday parties, Christmas gatherings, and picnics. Its accessibility and charm make it a hub for families and a vital part of our town,” she said.She added, “The early tree plantings and connection to St Stephen’s Church give the park its unique character. As a place of historical and social importance, the fire damage has left many residents disheartened.”The Jamberoo Valley Ratepayers and Residents Association (JVRRA) expressed their gratitude for Kiama Council’s swift action in responding to the fire. Secretary Ros Neilson noted, “It’s a relief to see the Council act so promptly after this unfortunate act of vandalism. Their timely update has been greatly appreciated by the community.” Councillor Stuart Larkins shared his own disappointment over the fire. “I’m still very shocked that this playground was set alight. I do not know why anyone would want to do such a thing. There is an ongoing police investigation, so anyone with information should contact Crime Stoppers on 1800 333 000,” he said.Looking ahead, Cr Larkins expressed relief that cleanup efforts will be completed in time for Jamberoo’s Australia Day celebrations, which will include a citizenship ceremony for 2025.Reid Park has always been more than just a recreational space. In the 1920s, Miss Reid introduced croquet to Jamberoo, a sport that continues to flourish in the park today. From its origins as a site for croquet tournaments to today’s family barbecues, the park embodies the spirit of Jamberoo. As the community awaits the playground’s restoration, this cherished space continues to stand as a testament to resilience, connection, and inclusivity.

Kate Dezarnaulds has officially launched her campaign to represent the federal seat of Gilmore as an independent, vowing to prioritise community voices over party politics. Speaking to an enthusiastic crowd, Kate outlined her vision for affordable housing, healthcare, sustainable energy, and a fairer future for the region.“Gilmore is my home. It’s where I’ve raised my children, built a business, and invested in the people and places that make this region so special,” Kate said. “But I cannot stand by and suffer the division, distraction, and denial driving our broken political system. This community deserves leadership that listens, acts with integrity, and seizes opportunities to build a better future—not leadership driven by party agendas.”“Gilmore is my home. It’s where I’ve raised my children, built a business, and invested in the people and places that make this region so special,” Kate said.Kate brings decades of experience in small business, community development, and regional advocacy. As President of the Berry Chamber of Commerce, she doubled its membership post-COVID and helped secure the Top Tourism Town award for three consecutive years.Her work with the Foundation for Rural and Regional Renewal’s Investing in Rural Community Futures program directly supported bushfire recovery across Gilmore, helping grassroots organisations in Batemans Bay, Nowra, Bay and Basin, Ulladulla, and Kangaroo Valley. As Head of Partnerships for StartupAus, Kate championed Australia’s entrepreneurs and startups, demonstrating her capacity to bring people together to create innovative solutions.Kate has also served on numerous boards, including the National Trust and the Shoalhaven Tourism Board, where she advocated for environmental preservation and regional economic development.Kate opened her campaign launch by highlighting the importance of preserving the natural beauty and cultural heritage of the region. “We have the incredible privilege of living in this beautiful place between the escarpment and the sea, and I want to honour the care of this land by the Aboriginal community over millennia,” she said.Kate’s priorities include:Affordable Housing and Healthcare: Advocating for federal investment in housing and healthcare to attract and retain key workers, ensure equitable access, and address the housing crisis.Powering the Future: Leveraging the energy transition to create local jobs, reduce costs, and build a sustainable regional economy while safeguarding Gilmore’s unique natural environment.Community Resilience: Strengthening disaster preparedness and supporting local programs that foster connected, resilient communities.Youth and Intergenerational Equity: Ensuring that future generations inherit a region with opportunities for growth, stability, and sustainability.Honest Leadership: Rebuilding trust through transparent representation and prioritising local voices over party politics.Kate emphasised the need for bold action to tackle climate change. “We need to invest in renewables and a just transition to clean energy that benefits everyday people, not multinational corporations,” she said.Kate’s campaign is powered by a growing grassroots movement, with a goal to enlist 1,000 volunteers across the electorate. Her campaign manager, Will Davies, said, “Kate brings practical solutions and a determination to build a stronger, fairer Gilmore for all. This is about energising the community to create real change.”Kate ended her speech with an impassioned call for support: “Help me get comfortable with being the name on the envelope, as we lean into the energy, bravery, and optimism needed to reclaim our sense of hope. Together, we can build a kinder, fairer, and more inclusive future for Gilmore.”Kate with her daugheter Pia and Fleur Townley

As Christmas and New Year’s roll around, many of us start thinking about resolutions. We promise to exercise more, spend less time on our phones, or finally tackle that overflowing junk drawer. But what if this year, we focused on something deeper? Something harder? What if we resolved to embrace forgiveness?The TV series Shrinking offers a perfect lens for this. It’s a story of grief, messy relationships, and the uphill battle to forgive—not just others, but ourselves. As Jason Segel’s character Jimmy stumbles through life after the loss of his wife, he shows us how forgiveness is rarely neat or easy. It’s awkward, painful, and deeply human.Forgiveness isn’t about forgetting. It’s not about pretending the hurt didn’t happen. It’s about freeing ourselves from the weight of anger, guilt, and regret. It’s about giving ourselves and others the chance to heal and move forward.But how do we start?The festive season is often painted as a time of joy, but for many, it’s complicated. Old grievances resurface around the dinner table. Family tensions bubble up. We’re surrounded by people we love, but sometimes it’s the people we love most who’ve hurt us—or who we’ve hurt.Maybe this year, instead of focusing on perfect decorations or the ideal menu, we could focus on what really matters: connection. Forgiveness doesn’t have to happen all at once. It might just be a moment of listening, a small gesture of kindness, or an honest conversation that says, “I’m willing to try.”So here’s the real question: what would it take for you to forgive this year?Is it an apology you’ve been waiting for? Or is it the courage to accept that one may never come? Is it learning to see someone’s flaws alongside their humanity? Or is it the hardest task of all—learning to see your own?As we enter 2025, let’s think about the kind of weight we want to carry. Anger, regret, and resentment can feel like armour, but they’re also chains. Forgiveness is messy and imperfect, but it’s also liberating.This Christmas and New Year’s, let’s resolve to take one step—just one—towards forgiveness. For ourselves, for the people we love, and for those we find hardest to love. It won’t be easy, but maybe that’s why it matters so much.What do you think it would take for you to forgive? Remember, forgiveness doesn’t mean forgetting—it means giving yourself permission to move forward.

With the Christmas rush in full swing, collisions spike significantly in December, making shopping centre car parks one of the riskiest places to navigate.Key findings from the latest analysisBetween October 2023 and September 2024, AAMI recorded over 22,000 car park insurance claims across Australia. December alone saw 36% more car park crashes than the monthly average.In New South Wales, Chatswood leads the list of hotspots, followed by Miranda and Castle Hill, highlighting the challenges of navigating busy suburban shopping precincts.Saturdays are now the worst day for prangs, with afternoons between 1 pm and 4:30 pm posing the highest risk. Shoppers hoping for a quieter experience might do better on Sundays or during early morning and late-night hours.How drivers are staying cautiousAAMI's research suggests that drivers are adopting various strategies to stay safe:Driving slowly (81%) and parking in less crowded areas (47%)Using sensors and cameras (34%) to avoid dingsHowever, bad behaviour remains a concern. Over 60% of respondents reported seeing others drive too fast or double park, though few admitted to doing these things themselves.Tips for a prang-free parking experienceAAMI Motor Claims Manager Leah James advises staying vigilant:Check twice: Watch for cars reversing or pulling out and always check blind spots.Stay alert: Pedestrians, especially near entrances, need extra caution.Eliminate distractions: Avoid phone use while driving in car parks.Light the way: Use headlights in dimly lit car parks for better visibility.Kiama’s local impactWhile Chatswood may top the list statewide, Kiama’s own shopping precincts see their fair share of car park challenges, particularly during peak tourist seasons. Locals are reminded to stay calm and cautious as visitors pour in for Christmas shopping and holiday festivities.Avoiding the afternoon rush and shopping on quieter days could save drivers time, stress, and the inconvenience of a holiday prang.Drive safe this Christmas season and enjoy a stress-free shopping experience!

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T’was the night before Christmas and all through the house not a creature was stirring except ... one little mouse. Theodore poked his head around the corner into the living room to check the coast was clear. It was. However, in case the cat was still awake, he cautiously tip-toed across to the dining table to see if any scraps had found their way onto the floor as he knew from past experience, how messy the kids that lived there were.Unfortunately it was clean and there were no scraps but Theodore knew that tonight was unlike other nights. He eyed the Christmas tree surrounded by all kinds and sizes of packages and quickly scurried over to sniff them out. On past Christmas Eves he had sniffed out packages containing cake, dried fruit, lollies and chocolates: a potential feast if he had the time to gnaw through the tight ribbons and wrappings. Unfortunately time he didn’t always have, especially on Christmas Eve. Even more enticing than the wrapped gifts though, was the piece of Christmas cake and glass of whisky left on the mantle piece for Santa. But he had to be quick!“Hey little mouse,” came a beaming voice behind him.Theodore turned and watched the chubby, white-bearded old man in his easily recognisable red suit climb out of the fireplace with a packed sack.“We meet again,” Santa continued.Damn, Theodore thought as he stood and watched him unpack his sack under the tree, and quickly gobble down the cake followed by the whisky. Santa then cheekily smiled at Theodore, bowed and waved a silent goodbye. Then as Theodore watched him climb into and back up the chimney, he sighed and vowed once again to make an extra effort to beat him...next year.

Ah, the festive group chat, the digital space where plans are made, jokes are attempted, and chaos reigns. Every family or friend group has one, and it’s as much a part of the holidays as pavlova and sunscreen. But these chats aren’t for the faint of heart. Here are the classic characters that make your notifications ping louder than Christmas carols:The Over-Planner: This person treats every holiday catch-up like a military operation. Their messages are filled with spreadsheets, itineraries, and questions like: “Should we do Secret Santa with a $47 budget this year?” Their energy is unmatched, but their 17 reminders about arrival times might send you straight to the “mute” button.The Ghoster: They were added to the group chat months ago but haven’t said a word since. Are they reading the messages? Are they even alive? No one knows—until they suddenly reply on Christmas Eve with “What’s the plan?”The Emoji Enthusiast: This person can’t send a message without decorating it like a Christmas tree. “Who’s bringing prawns? 🎄🍤🦐✨🎅” Their festive spirit is contagious, but their overuse of the eggplant emoji in a conversation about fruit platters is... questionable.The Meme Master:They contribute nothing to the actual planning but flood the chat with holiday-themed memes. “Santa after eating all those cookies 🎅➡️🍪➡️🤰😂” is their idea of helpful input. Do they make you laugh? Yes. Are they slowing down the chat? Also yes.The Food Critic: Every suggestion about what to bring is met with scrutiny. “Pavlova? Don’t you think that’s overdone? How about a deconstructed trifle?” By the end of the thread, they’ve volunteered themselves for dessert duty—just as they intended.The Calendar Confuser: No matter how many times the date and time are confirmed, they’ll still ask, “Wait, are we doing this on the 25th or the 26th?” Their inability to read previous messages is a holiday tradition in itself.The Late Arrival: They always respond hours (or days) after everyone else. By the time they chime in with “I can bring sausages!” the menu has already been sorted, leaving them to bring... napkins.The Over-Sharer: The chat is about who’s bringing salad, but they somehow segue into a detailed story about their dog’s latest vet visit. Nobody asked, but now you know more about Fido’s digestion than you ever wanted to.This year, spare a thought for the poor soul tasked with managing the holiday group chat chaos. It’s a tough gig, but without them, there’d be no BBQ, no cricket, and definitely no plan. So maybe resist the urge to mute, and instead, reply with a thumbs up, and maybe a festive meme or two.After all, what’s the holiday season without a little digital drama?

Ah, the holidays. A time for overindulging in pudding, pretending to love fruitcake, and, for some, endless scrolling on Facebook. While others are enjoying beach trips or post-lunch naps, you’re doom-scrolling through Karen’s blurry Christmas tree photos and Uncle Barry’s conspiracy rants. But what if your Facebook feed wasn’t a digital soap opera? What if it actually brought you joy?Imagine this festive fantasy. Every post is pure delight. Gone are the blurry snaps of turkey carcasses and burnt pavlovas. Instead, your feed is filled with golden retrievers in Santa hats, perfect sunsets, and someone’s grandma dancing to All I Want for Christmas Is You. No filters needed, just pure serotonin.No “some people” posts. Those vague, passive-aggressive updates like “Some people really don’t understand the meaning of family 🙄”? They’d be replaced by helpful tips like “Here’s how to survive Christmas lunch without murdering a relative.” Finally, advice we can all use.Got an event invite? Instead of the usual “Going” or “Maybe”, Facebook would offer honest RSVP options like: “Would rather poke my own eye out, but thanks.” or “Only attending for the free food.” No follow-ups, no guilt.Resolution-free New Year’s Eve posts would become the new norm. Your friends would finally stop announcing their resolutions like they’re about to run for parliament. Instead of “This is the year I get fit and learn French!” your feed would be full of gems like: “My only goal for 2025 is to not embarrass myself by March.” or “Skipping the gym but saying bonjour to cheese.”Ads would actually make sense. Forget creepy ones for lawnmowers just because you Googled “how to mow faster” once. Instead, Facebook would deliver the goods: “20% off noise-cancelling headphones for family BBQ survival.” or “A guide to saying no to Boxing Day cricket without starting World War III.”No humblebrags allowed. Posts like “OMG, I’m so humbled to have been named Employee of the Year AGAIN 💪” would be intercepted by Facebook’s new “Get Over Yourself” algorithm. Rewrites would be required: “Look at me! Shower me with praise!”Food crimes would be banned. Nobody could post a picture of their Christmas lunch unless it was Michelin-star worthy. Spaghetti bolognese on paper plates? Deleted. Grandma’s lopsided pudding? Adorable, but no, thank you.Group chats would finally get an upgrade. Family threads would come with a “translate” button for cryptic messages from Aunt Betty and a “mute” option for Dad’s endless GIFs of penguins in Santa hats.Travel photos would be smugness-free. Gone would be the endless “And we’re off!” airport lounge pictures. Your feed would now feature tasteful snaps of clear blue skies, captions like “Wish you were here!”, and zero shots of someone’s legs by the pool.If Facebook could deliver this kind of scroll, the holidays might actually feel festive. Instead, we’re stuck with the annual marathon of bragging, oversharing, and arguments in the comments section.But hey, at least there’s always the mute button, and a second helping of pudding.

Travelling with a group recently, I found myself in a conversation that has lingered in my mind. One person shared their wish that newcomers to Australia wouldn’t bring “their religious baggage.” I smiled quietly, not in agreement, but in recognition.My own family, with roots in Scotland, and Ireland, brought plenty of their own religious baggage to Australia. My grandparents’ story is a poignant example—it took them ten years to marry because one was Catholic and the other Protestant. Even then, they couldn’t marry in a church.Their story speaks to a history of division, where religious differences weren’t just private beliefs but lines that shaped relationships and communities. It’s a history that resonates today, even as we strive to live in a multicultural, diverse society.That history came to mind again when I invited friends to a local church carols event. One declined, explaining that they couldn’t reconcile participating in something associated with institutions that, in their view, have fueled conflicts for centuries. They reminded me that over 90% of wars in history have been linked to religious disputes. It wasn’t a judgment on my invitation but an expression of their deeply held values, and it gave me pause.Similarly, another friend declined an invitation to a Melbourne Cup luncheon, voting with their feet against an event they felt conflicted with their principles. I find these choices encouraging. They suggest we are becoming a society where people feel empowered to align their actions with their values.As the most multicultural countries in the world, (1 in 3 Australians were born overseas) Australia is enriched by its diversity. That diversity often challenges us to engage with perspectives we may not share, and sometimes, to sit with the discomfort of those differences. It requires us to listen, reflect, and respond with empathy rather than retreat into defensiveness.In Australian schools, many young people are learning how to navigate these conversations—how to respect and appreciate diverse viewpoints while confidently articulating their own. It’s a skill set I believe more adults could learn from.Perhaps the future lies not in avoiding the metaphorical baggage we all bring but in unpacking it together, finding shared understanding while honouring individual journeys. If our young people can do it, surely the rest of us can try too.

The Destination Kiama Christmas and End-of-Year Celebration brought together tourism operators, staff, and volunteers to reflect on a year of achievements and look ahead to 2025.The Kiama Visitor Centre, led by Lauren and her dedicated team, welcomed over 55,000 visitors this year, a testament to Kiama's growing appeal. Speaker highlights included the success of the Post and Chill Out winter campaign, which contributed to record-breaking average visitor stays of 3.4 nights.Chloe Audin talented local photographer, was celebrated for her cover image on the 2025 Visitor Guide, that promotes the region and reaches 40,000 readers across Australia.The event also showcased the thriving Kiama Pavilion, now breaking even thanks to the hard work of its management team, Kylie Harding and Jackie Hall.The evening wrapped up with reminders to visit the Visitor Centre for unique gifts from 32 local businesses, perfect for the festive season.With a focus on collaboration and community input, the team encouraged all to have their say on Kiama Council’s Community Strategic Plan, shaping the region's future.The celebration ended on a high note for local artist Susan Alexander who won the lucky door prize.Congratulations to the Destination Kiama and Visitors Centre teams on a fantastic year! Your dedication, creativity, and hard work have made Kiama a must-visit destination and a thriving community hub. Here’s to an even brighter 2025!From the Left: Michelle Springett, Belinda Doyle, Chair of Destination KIama Cr Matt Brown and Sheree BaileyCr Erica Warren, Cr Matt Brown and Cr Yasmin TatraiRoger Veage and Greg Langford from Kiama Business Network Mark Bryant - KIama Sevens, Sally Bursell -Manager Tourism & Events and Cathryn Lyall - President of Kiama Business NetworkThe very excited Susan Alexander who won the lucky door prize

Kiama’s reputation as a must-visit destination has received a significant boost, with two of its most recognisable landmarks named among New South Wales’ top 10 natural wonders by Destination NSW.The Kiama Blowhole and Bombo Headland have secured their spots on this prestigious list, celebrated for their unique beauty, geological significance, and natural power.Photo source Visit NSWThe Kiama Blowhole, already renowned as the world’s largest, continues to captivate visitors with its awe-inspiring display of nature’s force. When conditions are right, particularly with a south-easterly swell, water is driven through a narrow 2.5-metre opening in the rock, launching a dramatic spray of water up to 30 metres high. Located just a two-hour drive south of Sydney, the Blowhole remains a timeless attraction, offering visitors a humbling reminder of nature’s might.Kiama Blowhole Source Visit NSWEqually striking is the Bombo Headland, a landscape that feels otherworldly. Its towering basalt columns, a by-product of the region’s mining and quarrying history in the late 19th and early 20th centuries, stand as a testament to both human industry and the relentless forces of the ocean. Centuries of wind and waves have sculpted this rugged terrain into a photographer’s paradise, particularly at sunrise when the light transforms the headland into a scene of ethereal beauty.It’s no wonder we attract 55,000 visitors each year to experience these remarkable sights. As the most visited area in NSW, Kiama’s natural wonders continue to draw people from across the state, the country, and the world.Both landmarks are treasured not only by locals but by visitors seeking iconic landscapes and unforgettable experiences. With these designations, Kiama stands proudly as a showcase of nature’s beauty and power, further solidifying its place on the must-visit map.

Elders Real Estate at Jamberoo has once again provided a space for community members to donate gifts to the local Salvation Army, ensuring families in need have a brighter Christmas.Karen Walker from the Salvation Army and Viv Marris from Elders are both astonished by the generosity of the Jamberoo Community Each year, the Salvation Army compiles a list of local families who could use support during the festive season. They consult with parents to understand the kinds of gifts that would best suit their family, then carefully package and deliver the presents on Christmas Eve.For 24 years the generosity of the Jamberoo community has shone brightest during the festive season, as neighbours come together to ensure no family is left behind. Year after year, locals dig deep, contributing gifts that range from toys and books to thoughtful items for teens and adults.What makes Jamberoo’s effort truly special is its focus on personal connection. Families donating often ask, “What’s needed most?”, ensuring gifts are practical, meaningful, and tailored to those receiving them.From handmade crafts to thoughtful purchases, each gift reflects the heart of a small but mighty community that cares deeply for its own. It’s a reminder that, in Jamberoo, generosity isn’t just a seasonal act — it’s part of the fabric of daily life.While gifts for young children often come in abundance, this year the Salvation Army identified a recurring challenge: providing for teenagers. Parents particularly mentioned their teenage daughters would love makeup packs. Meryll Faulkner of Making Faces Studio in Kiama stepped in, generously providing tailored packs to meet this need.Meryll Faulkner of Making Faces Studio with the gift packs she donated to help teens smile this ChristmasPaul Farthing, who works alongside his wife Jess to package and deliver the gifts in the Kiama and Shellharbour LGAs, emphasised the joy and relief these efforts bring to local families. “It’s about making sure no one misses out and that every family member feels thought of,” he said.Watch Paul talk about the process here This year’s donations will fill baskets, bags, and boxes to the brim, a testament to the community’s compassion. From toys and games to thoughtful gifts for adults and teens, Elders at Jamberoo and the Salvation Army are delivering more than presents — they’re delivering connection and care.The Salvation Army is still in urgent need of donations, particularly sports equipment or gift vouchers for teenage boys. These items will help ensure every teenager feels included and valued this Christmas. Please contact Kaen Walker on 0438 435 705 if you are able to donate these items

Kiama Council’s legal expenses have increased twelvefold, meaning the Council is now spending 12 times more on legal costs compared to 2020/21. Much of this surge is tied to disputes in the Land and Environment Court. These figures highlight the challenges faced by anyone lodging a Development Application (DA), whether for a home renovation, a new business, or a larger project. The good news? With early preparation, expert advice and conversations with Council, many of these costly setbacks can be avoided.The DA process is underpinned by several key planning frameworks:State Environmental Planning Policies (SEPPs): Address state-level priorities like affordable housing, biodiversity, and coastal management.The Local Environmental Plan (LEP): Defines zoning and permissible uses for specific areas.Development Control Plans (DCPs): Provide detailed design and construction guidelines to ensure projects fit with the local character.These rules might seem like red tape, but they exist to balance development with community and environmental interests. The challenge for applicants is understanding how their plans align with these frameworks.A pre-lodgement meeting with Council’s planning team is one of the most effective ways to navigate this complexity. Council staff can clarify zoning requirements, highlight potential compliance issues, and provide practical solutions to help your application meet the mark. This step isn’t just for major developers, it’s for everyone, from families building a second-storey extension to businesses expanding their premises.Unfortunately, skipping these early conversations is all too common. Applications that don’t meet the LEP, SEPPs, or DCP are often sent back for revision, delaying projects and sometimes escalating into disputes. And when disagreements end up in the Land and Environment Court, the costs—not just financial but also emotional—can spiral.Council also has a role to play in reducing these disputes. By ensuring planning advice is clear and accessible, and by fostering a collaborative approach with applicants, it can reduce confusion and rebuild trust.For the community, however, there’s an opportunity to shift the focus from conflict to collaboration. The DA process works best when it’s seen as a partnership between Council and applicants—a way to achieve development outcomes that respect both individual goals and community standards.Council’s skyrocketing legal costs underscore the urgency of improving how DAs are handled. These expenses are a shared burden for ratepayers and a signal that something needs to change.As we look forward to the Council reviewing its legal expense statistics, it’s time to set benchmarks for improvement—whether that’s a target for reducing court cases, improving communication, or streamlining the DA process. Whatever the benchmarks, it’s clear the focus must shift to collaboration, early engagement, and reducing costs for everyone involved.

The auctioneer in a farming community is an essential member. Apart from selling ‘normal’ houses and commercial buildings the auctioneer would be called upon, on a regular basis, to sell cattle and other livestock. A livestock sale was a big community event. Many, if not all the farmers in the district would be in attendance whether buying and selling or not.Sometimes a whole farm with everything that went with it might be up for sale and THAT was an even bigger event. I can remember my father when he retired from the milking business selling and the crowd that attended the sale.Clive Emery did a story on such professionals. Now at the time of writing Clive was referring to past events in the story of Gerringong, but the story itself is 40 years old!Mark Emery     For more than a century the South Coast had been serviced by a number of Auctioneers. Their proliferation began as a result of the number of dairy farmers engaged in the industry, though irrespective of cattle, business was extended to many types of sales from properties to houses and effects.The firm of Alexander Campbell was by far the most prolific; being inaugurated in 1883 it has been handed down now to the fourth generation of the one family in the district of Gerringong. Irrespective of that sales have also been affected in areas like Kangaroo Valley in conjunction with Jack Condon, and in Albion Park with their auctioneer Paddy O'Gorman, and in Wollongong with J.N.King and sons. This was usually done where it was considered to be advantageous to attract the personal following attending his sales.Throughout the years his son James Alexander Campbell was to take over the business, and he in turn introduced his son James Bruce Campbell to the firm and changed the title to A.J.Campbell & Son. Bruce, as he was popularly known, introduced his son Neil Campbell into the firm and the title remained. Upon his father's death Neil has extended the business into Real Estate with himself at the head. The primary sales in Gerringong were conducted close to the Gerringong Hotel in Belinda Street where the present Squash Courts now stand. In those days all cattle were driven along the road or Prince's Highway to and from the saleyard by drovers like Charlie and Gus Johnstone and D.H.R (Dick) Chittick. Some farmers did their own droving if the regulars were unavailable. Fat and store cattle were the main product sold at these sales, and stockyards were built near the railway line north of the present Station for transit of stock by rail. This facility was also used for the transport of cattle to the local shows both north and south of Gerringong. Calves were also sold here and a special truck was provided. The purchasers of calves were Tibby Reid and Jack Cousins and Stan Stevenson. The latter being a buyer for a retirement Trust. Calf sales began at Albion Park where calves brought odd shillings, when today they are sold for up to three hundred dollars, and are an important addition to the cattle sales. These sales were in conjunction with Paddy O'Gorman, a well-known identity at sales. Sales at Berry were conducted in North Street, west of the Methodist Church. The chief drovers there were Billy McGee and his son Jack, and Stan Stevenson. The chief drovers at Jamberoo were Doc Tate and Johnny McCarthy. Doc was a man as long as an oak tree, whose feet were inches from the ground when mounted on his taffy pony. His whip was carried over his right shoulder at all times, and he wore a large, wide-brimmed hat. It is said these were the first things he put on each morning and the last things removed before bed!        The Nowra Saleyards were on the southern end of Junction Street, and the auctioneer was Mark Morton. The chief drovers were Billy McGee, Stan Stevenson and Stan Hart. It is important to note that the saleyards had to move further out of the town area, and now with the closure of Gerringong, Berry and Albion Park saleyards A.J.Campbell and Son have built an a modern and extensive and convenient selling outlet on the Cambewarra Road five hundred metres from the Prince's Highway a kilometre north of the city, and this facility now services the greater part of the Coast, selling upwards of five hundred head at weekly sales. Motor transport has taken over from the drover and his dog today, and huge pantechnicons capable of carrying sixty head of cattle service the Coast from the Nowra sales.The pioneer of motor transport of cattle is Bob Stevenson, who began with a small lorry capable of carrying four or five beasts at a time, with a tailboard that could be dropped for the ingress and egress of cattle from his truck. He was followed by Sam Glenn and Bob Monteith, and many other farmers adopted the idea and began hauling their own cattle to and from the sales. For all that, personalities like Doc Tate, Jack Gilroy and Billy McGee should have effigies to their memory erected in their own towns together with their sagacious dogs, all icons of an age now past! When Jack Gilroy retired he sold us his black pony Bessie and saddle- it must have torn his heart to pieces to have to part with such a delightful little companion! All because of the coming of the motor! 

Dear Readers,The following is a letter from Karen Renkema Lang, sharing her reflections on a long legal process involving Kiama Council. Her account highlights important questions around transparency, accountability, and decision-making in matters of public interest.We encourage readers to consider Karen’s experiences thoughtfully and reflect on the broader implications for open and accountable governance.– The Bugle Team Dear friends and supporters,On 18 November 2024 I finally received a payment of $74,000 from Kiama Council to cover my court costs, five months after the NSW Court Order was made. The bottom line is that I’m still personally out of pocket to the tune of $8,000. Without contributions to my fund-raising campaign my personal costs would have been much higher, so thank you again to those who contributed.I think it is important that you, and the broader community, are aware of the actions I took to have the matter dealt with fairly prior to proceeding to court. As a matter of public interest, the community should be informed of who was involved in the decisions to proceed to court on Council’s behalf? What was the rationale for doing so? What amount was approved to challenge the case? How much in total did it actually cost ratepayers? Why were the opportunities offered to avoid court action, as detailed below, not acted on?I did attempt to have the matter addressed by Council and the Office of Local Government very early in the process. These attempts were unsuccessful. Several people have publicly criticised me on social media assuming that I hadn’t. They were mis-informed.In addition, prior to lodging the summons at the NSW Supreme Court, I formally wrote to Council outlining my concerns and requesting that the censure motion be reconsidered. It is unclear to me whether any Councillors were informed of my correspondence or advised that reconsidering the censure motion could avoid court action and associated costs.The concerns expressed in my correspondence were the basis upon which the Supreme Court found the censure motion to be invalid. These were clearly articulated by the Chair of Public Integrity Anthony Whealy (retired supreme court judge) in ABC news report and radio interview (links below in comments.I have noticed recently that the news article that incorrectly reported that Council had spent over $400,000 on the matter (as at 30 March 2024) has been removed from Council’s website. However, before it was removed this incorrect amount was subsequently broadcast widely on social media and via ABC Illawarra, the Mercury Illawarra, and The Bugle Newspaper. As a result, I was subjected to much criticism and online abuse – based on inaccurate information. In spite of this, Council has made no public statement correcting the error.This recent Sydney Morning Herald article "Council Staff must not stifle the role of public debate and scrutiny” demonstrates that what I have experienced is not an isolated case. I have also been contacted by several Councillors from other NSW Councils detailing similar experiences.On a positive note, while this has been a very long and difficult journey, I’m pleased to have some closure on the matter, and I am now contemplating how I can use the lessons learnt over the last three years to advocate for more open and accountable Governments, and to prevent code of conduct complaints and ICAC referrals from being politically weaponised.I wish you all a peaceful and restorative holiday, and a new year filled with hugs, laughter, and surprises that inspire and challenge you.My sincere best wishesKaren Remka Lang

Three different events had to coincide for the creation of Fractal Analogy, the thought-provoking new philosophy book by Nicolaas A Gad.In 2016 Nic was hit by a car.Nic often takes notes on his phone trying to understand his thoughts about his philosophy toward the world.In 2023, because of injuries obtained in the car accident, he was given nine months off work for treatment.As a result of these three things, Fractal Analogy was born, a book that weaves together a range of topics from: dimensions, time, spirituality, dreams, the power of the mind, and more. Described on the back cover as “A logical exploration of the physical and the metaphysical,” Fractal Analogy challenges readers to rethink their perceptions of reality and offers insights into navigating life through a philosophical lens.“I’ve always been fascinated by philosophy—by trying to understand abstract concepts like time and existence,” says Nic. “I used to write down my thoughts on my phone, trying to make sense of it all. When I had all that time off last year, I realised I could finally turn those notes into something more - a book.”Nic admits that writing a book was never part of his original plan. “I always had the idea to write a book in the back of my mind, but I didn’t know what I would write about. It wasn’t like I set out to write a book, but everything just clicked. I had all these notes, and I had the time to work on it. It made sense to put it all together.”While the book tackles complex philosophical themes, Nic’s writing is refreshingly simple and accessible. And what started as a personal project—a way to clarify his own philosophy—soon evolved into something he wanted to share with others.“It began as a journal of sorts, just me trying to understand my own beliefs about life and how I see the world. But as I worked on it, I thought, ‘This might be helpful to others too.’ So I decided to put it out there.”Nic hopes the book will resonate with readers who are interested in exploring similar ideas. “It’s just something I thought was worth sharing because it has a little bit of everything. I’ve tried to make complex concepts as simple and understandable as possible.”One of the core ideas in Fractal Analogy is the subjective nature of reality—that what we perceive as real is simply a construct of our minds, shaped by the information our senses provide. Nic goes on to explore how we can use this understanding to navigate our daily lives more effectively.There’s little personal detail about Nic’s life, the focus is squarely on the concepts that drive his thinking.Nic did everything himself, from writing and formatting the book to creating illustrations that complement the text. He even arranged for a printing company in Sydney to bring his vision to life.Ultimately, Fractal Analogy is a deeply personal project that Nic felt compelled to share. Through clear, simple language, the book invites readers to engage with complex ideas in a way that feels both accessible and practical. As you read, you’ll find yourself reflecting on these concepts in real-time and integrating them into your own worldview.You can support Nic and get your copy of Fractal Analogy at The Bookshop Kiama, Shambalaa Tribe Kiama or Berry and Society City in Wollongong. It will also be on Amazon Kindle soon.